Be Your Best

The IAM Be Your Best lesson talks about how we choose to be our best in whatever circumstances come our way. We call this your Essential Best because it brings all of who you are into the picture – a holistic view.

This focus on your best is an interesting concept that seems so simple, yet can be completely forgotten. Just directing my attention to being my best helps me imagine a better outcome for my conversations with others, how I want to approach a project, how to have more fun, and so on. I can tell when I’m  focused on my best:  I actually feel lighter and breathe easier.

Focusing on my Essential Best helps me make decisions about how I want to show up at work, at home, with my friends and family. It’s a very subtle, simple shift from focusing on what’s wrong, to focusing on what’s right, that gets really great results. Something that helps make this shift is just taking a pause & asking, “Am I bringing my best?

You might be surprised at how so few people just take a pause. Many times we think we have to give an immediate response, and that’s not always the best approach. Think about it. The next time you are making a decision, having a conversation, conducting a meeting, working with a team, and so on, take a pause & ask yourself, “How can I bring more of my Essential Best?

One Response to “Be Your Best”

  • I think about how being my best is NOT about relentless pursuit and never being content with the present. Many times being my best is about appreciating “what is” and at the same time trusting that I have the capacity to bring my best to whatever situation I find myself in. If I find myself getting bored or frustrated with my life or my work, I suspect it’s because I’m not bringing the best of who I am to the situation or relationship. I will do my best (pun intended) to gently remind myself to choose Being My Best every day.

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